Divorce stigma was created by G-d to protect the happiness and unity of families only in olam hazeh

The bad marriage was created by G-d to add to the happiness of the sufferer only in olam haba.

Divorced fathers are like an airplane without a runway: you can’t take off and you can’t land.

A war torn father turns to refueling and recharging mid –air, and he will continue to float.

A wisened father makes limits and spots the landing airport that he had been blind to the whole time.

The decision to get divorced is similar to deciding to amputate your own nose.

The pain of getting divorced is similar to the pain of amputating your own nose

the pain following divorce is similar to phantom pain after amputation; it’s as if the nose never goes away.





 Birth was the beginning of my relationship with my parents

School was the beginning of my relationship with friends

Marriage was the beginning of my relationship with a spouse

Birth of my children was the beginning of my relationship with my children

Divorce from a spouse was the beginning of my new  relationship with myself