Setting your goals, not the goals meant for someone else. Example, a person born with a handicap might not objectively accomplish as much as someone with out that handicap. When you utilize your time and energy, you subjectively accomplished more and that's what counts in the long run when our life is taken into consideration. Set reachable goals and feel profound pleasure and joy in the daily actions you take to reach them. Each action might seem small but you are building your character and having positive effect on the lives of those around you.