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Forgiveness:
The Double-Edged Sword of Trauma Therapy

Dr. Robert Muller's Abstract: Forgiveness is frequently discussed in trauma therapy literature, yet in clinical practice it often presents complex challenges, particularly for survivors of interpersonal trauma perpetrated by trusted others. This workshop examines forgiveness as a nuanced and sometimes problematic therapeutic construct—one that can promote healing in some contexts while causing harm when introduced prematurely or coercively. Participants will explore distinctions between authentic and rushed forgiveness, the role of apology in facilitating genuine repair, and the importance of conceptualizing forgiveness as a process rather than an outcome. Special attention will be given to self-forgiveness, a frequently overlooked but critical aspect of trauma recovery. The workshop integrates theory with clinical case material drawn from trauma-focused psychotherapy to illustrate practical applications. Participants will be invited to reflect and engage throughout the session.

 

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Forgiveness:
The Double-Edged Sword of Trauma Therapy

Sunday, June 07, 2026, 1:45 PM EDT - 4:45 PM EDT

Presenter: Robert T. Muller PhD

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Course Length: 3 Hours

Learning Objectives:

  1. Differentiate between authentic forgiveness and rushed or coerced forgiveness in trauma therapy, including identifying clinical indicators of each.
  2. Explain forgiveness as a non-linear process in the treatment of interpersonal trauma.
  3. Evaluate the role of apology in facilitating or impeding forgiveness within trauma-informed clinical work.
  4. Analyze the clinical significance of self-forgiveness in trauma recovery and its impact on shame, avoidance, and self-blame.
  5. Apply trauma-informed strategies for addressing forgiveness dilemmas using case material presented in the workshop.

This workshop Offers 3 Live Interactive Continuing Education Credits

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Dr. Robert Muller's Abstract: Forgiveness is frequently discussed in trauma therapy literature, yet in clinical practice it often presents complex challenges, particularly for survivors of interpersonal trauma perpetrated by trusted others. This workshop examines forgiveness as a nuanced and sometimes problematic therapeutic construct—one that can promote healing in some contexts while causing harm when introduced prematurely or coercively. Participants will explore distinctions between authentic and rushed forgiveness, the role of apology in facilitating genuine repair, and the importance of conceptualizing forgiveness as a process rather than an outcome. Special attention will be given to self-forgiveness, a frequently overlooked but critical aspect of trauma recovery. The workshop integrates theory with clinical case material drawn from trauma-focused psychotherapy to illustrate practical applications. Participants will be invited to reflect and engage throughout the session.

 

Learning Objectives:

  1. Differentiate between authentic forgiveness and rushed or coerced forgiveness in trauma therapy, including identifying clinical indicators of each.
  2. Explain forgiveness as a non-linear process in the treatment of interpersonal trauma.
  3. Evaluate the role of apology in facilitating or impeding forgiveness within trauma-informed clinical work.
  4. Analyze the clinical significance of self-forgiveness in trauma recovery and its impact on shame, avoidance, and self-blame.
  5. Apply trauma-informed strategies for addressing forgiveness dilemmas using case material presented in the workshop.

Agenda:

0:00–0:20

Conceptualizing Forgiveness in Trauma Therapy

  • Common misconceptions about forgiveness

  • Forgiveness vs. reconciliation

  • Cultural and clinical pressures to forgive

0:20–0:50

Authentic vs. Rushed Forgiveness

  • Clinical indicators of premature forgiveness

  • Impact of rushed forgiveness on trauma symptoms

  • Case illustration

0:50–1:20

Forgiveness as a Process

  • Non-linear models of forgiveness

  • Tolerance of ambivalence and unresolved affect

  • Therapist stance and pacing

1:20–1:30 — Break

1:30–2:00

The Role of Apology in Trauma Repair

  • When apologies help vs. harm

  • Power dynamics and responsibility

  • Clinical examples

2:00–2:30

Self-Forgiveness in Trauma Treatment

  • Shame, self-blame, and moral injury

  • Therapist countertransference

  • Working with avoidance and internalized criticism

2:30–2:55

Clinical Application and Case Discussion

  • Applying concepts to complex trauma cases

  • Ethical considerations

  • Participant questions

2:55–3:00

Summary and Closing Reflections




This presentation is open to:
  • Social Workers
  • Professional Counselors
  • Therapists
  • Psychologists
  • Licensed Mental Health Practitioners
  • Medical Doctors and Other Health Professionals
  • Other professionals interacting with populations engaged in mental health based services
Course Level: intermediate
Level of Clinician: intermediate
  • New practitioners who wish to gain enhanced insight surrounding the topic
  • Experienced practitioners who seek to increase and expand fundamental knowledge surrounding the subject matter
  • Advanced practitioners seeking to review concepts and reinforce practice skills and/or access additional consultation
  • Managers seeking to broaden micro and/or macro perspectives

Participants will receive their certificate electronically upon completion of the webinar and course evaluation form.

Disability Access - If you require ADA accommodations, please contact our office 30 days or more before the event. We cannot ensure accommodations without adequate prior notification. Please Note: Licensing Boards change regulations often, and while we attempt to stay abreast of their most recent changes, if you have questions or concerns about this course meeting your specific board’s approval, we recommend you contact your board directly to obtain a ruling. The grievance policy for trainings provided by the NEFESH INTERNATIONAL is available here Satisfactory Completion Participants must have paid the tuition fee, logged in and out each day, attended the entire workshop, and completed an evaluation to receive a certificate (If this is a pre-recorded program, a post-test with a passing grade of 80% to receive a certificate.) Failure to log in or out will result in forfeiture of credit for the entire course. No exceptions will be made. Partial credit is not available. Certificates are available after satisfactory course completion by clicking here.
There is no conflict of interest or commercial support for this program.
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    CE You! maintains responsibility for this program.

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