Dr. Robert Muller's Abstract: Forgiveness is frequently discussed in trauma therapy literature, yet in clinical practice it often presents complex challenges, particularly for survivors of interpersonal trauma perpetrated by trusted others. This workshop examines forgiveness as a nuanced and sometimes problematic therapeutic construct—one that can promote healing in some contexts while causing harm when introduced prematurely or coercively. Participants will explore distinctions between authentic and rushed forgiveness, the role of apology in facilitating genuine repair, and the importance of conceptualizing forgiveness as a process rather than an outcome. Special attention will be given to self-forgiveness, a frequently overlooked but critical aspect of trauma recovery. The workshop integrates theory with clinical case material drawn from trauma-focused psychotherapy to illustrate practical applications. Participants will be invited to reflect and engage throughout the session.
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Forgiveness:
The Double-Edged Sword of Trauma Therapy
Sunday, June 07, 2026, 1:45 PM EDT - 4:45 PM EDT
Presenter: Robert T. Muller PhD
Course Length: 3 Hours
This workshop Offers 3 Live Interactive Continuing Education Credits
Dr. Robert Muller's Abstract: Forgiveness is frequently discussed in trauma therapy literature, yet in clinical practice it often presents complex challenges, particularly for survivors of interpersonal trauma perpetrated by trusted others. This workshop examines forgiveness as a nuanced and sometimes problematic therapeutic construct—one that can promote healing in some contexts while causing harm when introduced prematurely or coercively. Participants will explore distinctions between authentic and rushed forgiveness, the role of apology in facilitating genuine repair, and the importance of conceptualizing forgiveness as a process rather than an outcome. Special attention will be given to self-forgiveness, a frequently overlooked but critical aspect of trauma recovery. The workshop integrates theory with clinical case material drawn from trauma-focused psychotherapy to illustrate practical applications. Participants will be invited to reflect and engage throughout the session.
Conceptualizing Forgiveness in Trauma Therapy
Common misconceptions about forgiveness
Forgiveness vs. reconciliation
Cultural and clinical pressures to forgive
Authentic vs. Rushed Forgiveness
Clinical indicators of premature forgiveness
Impact of rushed forgiveness on trauma symptoms
Case illustration
Forgiveness as a Process
Non-linear models of forgiveness
Tolerance of ambivalence and unresolved affect
Therapist stance and pacing
The Role of Apology in Trauma Repair
When apologies help vs. harm
Power dynamics and responsibility
Clinical examples
Self-Forgiveness in Trauma Treatment
Shame, self-blame, and moral injury
Therapist countertransference
Working with avoidance and internalized criticism
Clinical Application and Case Discussion
Applying concepts to complex trauma cases
Ethical considerations
Participant questions
Summary and Closing Reflections